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Making Thanksgiving Personal

It is Thanksgiving week, and I don’t know how to tell you how excited I am. I love Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is not my favorite holiday. Christmas is my very favorite holiday, and I’m going to start celebrating Christmas at the end of this week. I always wait till after Thanksgiving to start celebrating Christmas. If you celebrate Christmas early. I know people start celebrating Christmas in July. If you celebrate Christmas early, that is great. But for me, I just don’t like running over Thanksgiving. I love Thanksgiving. I love our family traditions for Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is my very favorite meal of the year. I’m married to an Italian, and so there are a lot of great meals in the year. I love the Italian Christmas dinner tradition. So no slime on any other...

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Is God in Control of Suffering?

When suffering comes into our lives, whatever form it takes, we can often respond by wondering, “where is God?” We often question that if God is good, why does he allow this difficulty to come into our lives? Or we respond the other way; we question if our good God is really in control. If God was in control, there’s no way that he would permit painful suffering in our lives. In our last post, we saw two truths about suffering from the opening chapters of the book of Job. Those chapters teach that even though suffering is Satan’s attempt to destroy our faith in God, we also learn that this same suffering is also God’s purpose to strengthen our faith in God. Satan uses suffering for his evil purposes, but God uses suffering for His good purposes in our lives. In order for us to trust God...

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How Do I Deal with the Loss of a Child?

This week on the podcast, I want to speak to those of you who, I guess, must be the most hurting people in the world. I want to talk to those of you who have lost a child who have experienced the bitterness of the death of one of your children. This loss in a broken and sinful world is one of if not the most painful experiences that any human being can ever go through. Death is not part of the natural order. You understand what I mean by that. Death is imposed on God’s created order because of our sin. It is not the way God made it to be. And so death really is in God’s perfect conception of the world. It is unnatural, of course, in a fallen world where we sin and betray the Lord, and there are penalties. Of course, death is now a normally expected part of life. But that’s...

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Trusting God Through Suffering

Suffering comes into our lives in many different forms. The difficult loss of a loved one, especially a spouse or child. Debilitating and chronic physical pain. Financial strain from losing a job, bankrupting a business, or making a terrible investment. Relational strain from an estranged family member or former friend. We also face cancer diagnoses and natural disasters, not to mention any hostility or outright persecution for simply being a Christian. Suffering is inescapable this side of heaven. The goal is not to avoid all suffering (as if that was possible) but to be prepared for suffering. The Bible calls us to trust God through our suffering and provides us the message of Job to help teach us that lesson. Job’s Suffering The opening two chapters of the book of Job describe the horrible...

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How Should Christians Think About Suicide and Hell?

I want to talk to you today about one of the hardest topics in the world for us to talk about. And that is the issue of suicide. And because of the nature of the difficulty of this topic, and because of where I want to go over the course of the podcast here in the next few minutes because where I want to end, by the time we’re done, I need to talk about this in a couple of different ways. The first thing I want to say when I talk about suicide, and when I talk about hell, I want to talk about whether the act of suicide leads to a person’s condemnation to hell. As I do that, I want to acknowledge that I know, I am talking to people who are considering suicide. I know I’m talking to people who are thinking about this. I know I’m talking to people who are broken and...

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What is Godliness?

It’s a prerequisite for Christian leadership. It’s championed in Christian literature. Its absence is a red light in romantic relationships. It’s heralded in thousands of churches every Sunday. It motivates accountability groups, is commended by Christians around the world and is summarized in one word: Godliness. Godliness means conforming to the character of God in your thoughts, feelings, desires, and actions. Quite simply, being godly means being like God. But godliness is dangerous. Not because you may be persecuted if you pursue it – although you may. Not because Satan will oppose you at every turn of your striving towards it – although he will. Not because your sinful flesh will roar in resistance as you reach for it – although it will. No, godliness is dangerous for a much more subtle...

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Are Ghosts Real?

It is the week of Halloween. Halloween is that time when we think about all sorts of things, we think about candy, and we think about costumes, we think about trick or treating, we think about parties, and getting together with friends. It’s also that time of the year when we think about scary stuff; sometimes, we try to do the so-called jump scare thing. We want to jump out from behind somewhere and totally freak somebody out. We think about telling ghost stories and doing other things that are just going to get in people’s heads and make them be rattled by it. What I want to talk about on the podcast this week, as we think about the week of Halloween, is not any of that stuff that is intended to be fun, is not any of that stuff that’s intended to be celebratory. But I...

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Winning with Evangelism

If you were to survey Christians in our city, asking them, “how many people have you shared the Gospel with this week?” you would be hard-pressed to find evangelism happening at all. We need to change that. One of the most helpful ways to do that is to adjust our perspective. I believe that a proper view of evangelism leads to evangelism. When we are thinking biblically about it, we will do it. Evangelism is obedience to what God says, like prayer, bible reading, and attending church. So, what is stopping you? We know we should evangelize, but we get hung up on rejection and relational fallout. We are careful to speak the truth in love, but all know Gospel conversations can end in tears. So, I want to share a lesson my mentor shared with me. He taught me as a 12-year-old boy,...

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Two Attitudes When Studying the Bible

Reading the Bible is not like reading any other book. The words of the Bible are the very words of God. The Scriptures are described as a two-edged sword which reads us while we read it. And yet people often treat the Bible like any other book that collects dust on their decorative shelf. Even Christians can be bored with the Bible and miss its relevance for their lives. The word of God is more important than food. It is more precious than honey. It is more valuable than gold. “The law of your mouth is better to me than thousands of gold and silver pieces.” Psalm 119:72 This means there is a right and a wrong way to approach the Scriptures. The attitude with which we approach the Bible is directly connected to our appreciation of it. How we study the Bible is just as important as that we...

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Are Christians Required to Fast?

This week on the podcast, I want to talk about the issue of fasting and whether it is required as a practice for Christians. Do Christians have to fast? Must they do that? Before we can answer the question, are Christians required to fast? We need to first be sure we know what we’re talking about. An easy, simple definition of fasting is that it is the practice of intentionally abstaining from food for spiritual reasons. Of course, there are other kinds of fasting, a technology fast, you can do a phone fast, and there are all sorts of other kinds of fasting. But in the main in the Bible, fasting is intentionally abstaining from food for spiritual reasons. It’s not just abstaining from food, but it’s for spiritual reasons. You can abstain from food for health reasons; you...

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